Just Do NOT use it!!! This word IS evil.
Lots of people (including myself) are easily offended by the very sound of this word. So, telling people not to get offend because of ‘this and that’ is a joke. Nowadays, you can even see little kids throwing this word around in public. What do THEY understand about this word? All they know is that this word is powerful, offensive and they can abuse it to shut people up and put them down. I must admit, I did use it once 6 years ago. Yes, I felt good when I used it, but deeply regretted it afterwards. We adults must learn to control ourselves – knowing something is bad and still do it is not the way. Don’t try to find yourself an excuse for using this word. If you must express your anger, your excitement or your whatever emotions, use something else.